4 days agoDid You Hear The One About The Marriage Wrecker?‘Single Women In The Lifestyle Are Marriage Wreckers’ ‘Single Women In The Lifestyle Are Marriage Wreckers’ So this particular slice of slur pie was served to me as a comment left on one of my Thiskindagirl TikTok videos. And I’ll be honest. Initially, I had the thought, ‘You don’t need…Sex5 min readSex5 min read
Apr 14I Believe Ethical Non-Monogamy Is More Productive Than Monogamy, and This Is Why.I Believe Ethical Non-Monogamy Is More Productive Than Monogamy. Before I get started, the title of this article might have some of you scratching your heads. What is Rosie going on about now? Ethical non-monogamy, more productive, what? But bear with me; it does make sense, I promise, and even…Sex8 min readSex8 min read
Mar 30Have you ever been to a BBC party; Is it wrong to fetishise someone’s race?I have a friend, and I will refer to her as A for this particular piece of content, which promises to be taboo, thought-provoking and non-pc. Just what we like here at thiskindagirl. And here’s the thing, A likes black men. In fact, she prefers black men over other races…Sex5 min readSex5 min read
Mar 13The Importance (and irony) Of PubesRosie, When swinging, which is best for pubes waxed, natural or trimmed? This is a question I received recently and before I offer my thoughts on this question, I wanted to talk about the science behind WHY we have pubic hair and what its function is… because, yes, it has…Swinging5 min readSwinging5 min read
Mar 10It’s Got Nothing To Do With Dick Size, This Is Why Some Men Have More Success In Swinger ClubsSuccess in Swinger Clubs? It’s nothing physical!- by Rosie Kay It’s got nothing to do with dick size, chest size, salary or what a man drives. Neither has it anything to do with how much he paid for his ticket, what clubs he has been to before or how many people he’s slept with. …Swinging6 min readSwinging6 min read
Feb 17How To Act In A Swingers ClubHow To Act In A Swingers Club Why I wanted to make this article… When working with my coaching clients on a 1–2–1 basis, they often ask me for advice on behaviour and etiquette in clubs. ‘How should I/we act in a swingers club? What behaviour is a no-no?’ And recently, it has come to my attention…Sex And Relationships10 min readSex And Relationships10 min read
Jan 9I’m A Swinger Lifestyle Expert, But I Don’t Like The Word Swinging.I’m A Swinger Lifestyle Expert, But I Don’t Like The Word Swinging. Recently, I received this question: Rosie, how come people still use the word swinger? What does it mean? Isn’t it a bit, well, dated? Is there something more appropriate for 2023? To which I replied with: ‘You know…Nonmonogamy3 min readNonmonogamy3 min read
Jan 6I don’t live in UK; how can I start swinging? One continual question has taught me a very valuable lesson…I don’t live in UK; how can I start swinging? Over the last year, there has been one question I have received that I didn’t anticipate hearing as often as I have done. I thought I’d answered this question months ago in a piece of content I had made and…Swinging3 min readSwinging3 min read
Oct 22, 2022You’re Teaching Him To Lie, and Other Uncomfortable Truths I Tell My Coaching ClientsYou’re Teaching Him To Lie, and Other Uncomfortable Truths I Tell My Coaching Clients- By Rosie Kay When I started coaching couples, I perhaps underestimated the number of times I’d have to give them the uncomfortable truth about what was happening in their relationships or what was likely to happen…Relationships5 min readRelationships5 min read
Sep 29, 2022The Time An Ex Tried To Steal My Sex Toys.Because breaking my heart wasn’t enough, apparently. Recently, I asked my followers on my social media a few questions about sex toys. Why? Well, partly because I was curious about what they enjoyed using, and because I get approached by sex toy companies fairly regularly at thiskindagirl, and sometimes I…Sex4 min readSex4 min read