I Believe Ethical Non-Monogamy Is More Productive Than Monogamy. Before I get started, the title of this article might have some of you scratching your heads. What is Rosie going on about now? Ethical non-monogamy, more productive, what? But bear with me; it does make sense, I promise, and even…

I have a friend, and I will refer to her as A for this particular piece of content, which promises to be taboo, thought-provoking and non-pc. Just what we like here at thiskindagirl. And here’s the thing, A likes black men. In fact, she prefers black men over other races…

Rosie, When swinging, which is best for pubes waxed, natural or trimmed? This is a question I received recently and before I offer my thoughts on this question, I wanted to talk about the science behind WHY we have pubic hair and what its function is… because, yes, it has…

Success in Swinger Clubs? It’s nothing physical!- by Rosie Kay It’s got nothing to do with dick size, chest size, salary or what a man drives. Neither has it anything to do with how much he paid for his ticket, what clubs he has been to before or how many people he’s slept with. …

How To Act In A Swingers Club Why I wanted to make this article… When working with my coaching clients on a 1–2–1 basis, they often ask me for advice on behaviour and etiquette in clubs. ‘How should I/we act in a swingers club? What behaviour is a no-no?’ And recently, it has come to my attention…

I’m A Swinger Lifestyle Expert, But I Don’t Like The Word Swinging. Recently, I received this question: Rosie, how come people still use the word swinger? What does it mean? Isn’t it a bit, well, dated? Is there something more appropriate for 2023? To which I replied with: ‘You know…

I don’t live in UK; how can I start swinging? Over the last year, there has been one question I have received that I didn’t anticipate hearing as often as I have done. I thought I’d answered this question months ago in a piece of content I had made and…

You’re Teaching Him To Lie, and Other Uncomfortable Truths I Tell My Coaching Clients- By Rosie Kay When I started coaching couples, I perhaps underestimated the number of times I’d have to give them the uncomfortable truth about what was happening in their relationships or what was likely to happen…

Because breaking my heart wasn’t enough, apparently. Recently, I asked my followers on my social media a few questions about sex toys. Why? Well, partly because I was curious about what they enjoyed using, and because I get approached by sex toy companies fairly regularly at thiskindagirl, and sometimes I…