Am I expected to have sex with other men in a swingers club? Recently, I received a question from someone that took me right back to a feeling that I experienced when I first started swinging: feeling like I had to get involved at a swingers club and being turned…

This is one of the most popular questions I am asked. I Want To Swing, But I’m Scared Of Repercussions. Last week, I sat down with a couple from Trinidad, who shared with me a concern that is familiar to most new swinger couples; they wanted to enjoy the lifestyle…

‘This isn’t what I signed up for!’ The point where fantasy and reality collide in relationships. After a hard day of non-monogamy relationship coaching, there’s nothing more I enjoy than sitting on the sofa with a cup of tea and maybe a scone (yes, I am British) and allowing myself…

Low Investment+ Low Interest = Lousy Interaction Trigger Warning!! This article might sound like a tirade in some places as it is inspired by many of the rather pessimistic-sounding messages I receive daily from people who want me to wave a magic wand and make it happen for them. FYI…

I may teach couples how to play with couples, but their relationship is the most important thing to me. Sitting opposite me are a couple who, like many before them, have decided to venture into the great unknown of the open relationship. Filled with a desire for a foursome (or…

Hi Rosie, if men are hardwired to want more than one partner, can the same be said for women? I received this question a few weeks ago via my site, and until now, it’s been buzzing around on my to-do list. I keep trying unsuccessfully to answer it as a…

Is There Such Thing As A Perfect Foursome? One problem many couples have shared with me, written to me about at thiskindagirl and also wanted to hear my thoughts on when I’ve met them in clubs is ‘Is there such thing as a perfect foursome?’ or are they simply asking…

What are the basic forms of Ethical Non-Monogamy? No, it’s not secretly deleting ‘just a text’ off your phone, nor is it watching pornhub whilst your partner is asleep; basic ethical non-monogamy, or the practice of it, is a thing. And it might be something you do in your relationship without even realising it! But first, let’s talk…

Is Male Chastity Allowed In Swinger Clubs? Recently, I received a question from a TKG Club member who was curious about male chastity within the swinger lifestyle, and they went on to share with members a scenario they would like to experience with their wife. I read both the question…