Mar 13The Importance (and irony) Of PubesRosie, When swinging, which is best for pubes waxed, natural or trimmed? This is a question I received recently and before I offer my thoughts on this question, I wanted to talk about the science behind WHY we have pubic hair and what its function is… because, yes, it has…Swinging5 min readSwinging5 min read
Mar 10It’s Got Nothing To Do With Dick Size, This Is Why Some Men Have More Success In Swinger ClubsSuccess in Swinger Clubs? It’s nothing physical!- by Rosie Kay It’s got nothing to do with dick size, chest size, salary or what a man drives. Neither has it anything to do with how much he paid for his ticket, what clubs he has been to before or how many people he’s slept with. …Swinging6 min readSwinging6 min read
Feb 17How To Act In A Swingers ClubHow To Act In A Swingers Club Why I wanted to make this article… When working with my coaching clients on a 1–2–1 basis, they often ask me for advice on behaviour and etiquette in clubs. ‘How should I/we act in a swingers club? What behaviour is a no-no?’ And recently, it has come to my attention…Sex And Relationships10 min readSex And Relationships10 min read
Jan 9I’m A Swinger Lifestyle Expert, But I Don’t Like The Word Swinging.I’m A Swinger Lifestyle Expert, But I Don’t Like The Word Swinging. Recently, I received this question: Rosie, how come people still use the word swinger? What does it mean? Isn’t it a bit, well, dated? Is there something more appropriate for 2023? To which I replied with: ‘You know…Nonmonogamy3 min readNonmonogamy3 min read
Jan 6I don’t live in UK; how can I start swinging? One continual question has taught me a very valuable lesson…I don’t live in UK; how can I start swinging? Over the last year, there has been one question I have received that I didn’t anticipate hearing as often as I have done. I thought I’d answered this question months ago in a piece of content I had made and…Swinging3 min readSwinging3 min read
Oct 22, 2022You’re Teaching Him To Lie, and Other Uncomfortable Truths I Tell My Coaching ClientsYou’re Teaching Him To Lie, and Other Uncomfortable Truths I Tell My Coaching Clients- By Rosie Kay When I started coaching couples, I perhaps underestimated the number of times I’d have to give them the uncomfortable truth about what was happening in their relationships or what was likely to happen…Relationships5 min readRelationships5 min read
Sep 29, 2022The Time An Ex Tried To Steal My Sex Toys.Because breaking my heart wasn’t enough, apparently. Recently, I asked my followers on my social media a few questions about sex toys. Why? Well, partly because I was curious about what they enjoyed using, and because I get approached by sex toy companies fairly regularly at thiskindagirl, and sometimes I…Sex4 min readSex4 min read
Sep 3, 2022I’ve Been A Self Employed Sex Blogger For Year; Here Are 5 Things I have Discovered I Suck At (no pun intended)A year ago, I said goodbye to my life as I knew it. I packed up my flat, gave up my already successful career and left the city. I went from being a single girl in London (tinder/ swinger clubs/ good salary and city centre flat) to a single girl living up north… (er… tinder… is there anyone there?) I swapped my Friday…Sex And Relationships6 min readSex And Relationships6 min read
Jul 27, 2022I’m a swinger lifestyle ambassador, but I’m fed up with hearing this one question.I’m a swinger lifestyle ambassador, but I’m fed up with hearing this one question. People write to me all the time. Which, up until very recently, I have been thrilled with. Inbox: One New Message! Oh goodie! Another person is asking for my help! But over recent weeks, I have…Relationships Love Dating8 min readRelationships Love Dating8 min read
Jun 22, 2022Swinging And Disability — an interview with MS WarriorThe world of ethical Non-monogamy is becoming a much more inclusive place. I have now experienced all manner of events and parties and met couples and single people, all of whom have been on different paths. …Disability8 min readDisability8 min read