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Rosie Kay aka ThisKindaGirl
Rosie Kay aka ThisKindaGirl

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4 days ago

If men are hardwired to want more than one partner, can the same be said for women?

Hi Rosie, if men are hardwired to want more than one partner, can the same be said for women? I received this question a few weeks ago via my site, and until now, it’s been buzzing around on my to-do list. I keep trying unsuccessfully to answer it as a…

Sex

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If men are hardwired to want more than one partner, can the same be said for women?
If men are hardwired to want more than one partner, can the same be said for women?
Sex

8 min read


Sep 8

Is There Such Thing As A Perfect Foursome? Or Is It A Swinger Lifestyle Myth?

Is There Such Thing As A Perfect Foursome? One problem many couples have shared with me, written to me about at thiskindagirl and also wanted to hear my thoughts on when I’ve met them in clubs is ‘Is there such thing as a perfect foursome?’ or are they simply asking…

Nonmonogamy

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Is There Such Thing As A Perfect Foursome? Or Is It A Swinger Lifestyle Myth?
Is There Such Thing As A Perfect Foursome? Or Is It A Swinger Lifestyle Myth?
Nonmonogamy

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Aug 16

Three signs you are practising basic forms of Ethical Non-Monogamy in your relationship

What are the basic forms of Ethical Non-Monogamy? No, it’s not secretly deleting ‘just a text’ off your phone, nor is it watching pornhub whilst your partner is asleep; basic ethical non-monogamy, or the practice of it, is a thing. And it might be something you do in your relationship without even realising it! But first, let’s talk…

Sex And Relationships

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Three signs you are practising basic forms of Ethical Non-Monogamy in your relationship
Three signs you are practising basic forms of Ethical Non-Monogamy in your relationship
Sex And Relationships

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Aug 1

Is Male Chastity Allowed In Swinger Clubs?

Is Male Chastity Allowed In Swinger Clubs? Recently, I received a question from a TKG Club member who was curious about male chastity within the swinger lifestyle, and they went on to share with members a scenario they would like to experience with their wife. I read both the question…

Swingers

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Is Male Chastity Allowed In Swinger Clubs?
Is Male Chastity Allowed In Swinger Clubs?
Swingers

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Jul 24

Do sex workers and the swinger lifestyle mix? Here are five reasons why I say they do.

A few weeks ago, I received a question that sounded a little like this ‘Hi Rosie, I want to swing with my wife. Shall I hire us an escort?’ Now, for me, not only did this question get me thinking about why a couple might want to ‘swing’ with a…

Sex Work

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Do sex workers and the swinger lifestyle mix? Here are five reasons why I say they do.
Do sex workers and the swinger lifestyle mix? Here are five reasons why I say they do.
Sex Work

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Jul 10

From Lifestyle Libertine to Respected Relationship Coach, this is my story.

I was recently asked, ‘How did you leap from the lifestyle into career coaching/ mentoring within the industry?’ When I started thiskindagirl, I sat down and told my story. I put pen to paper and started to detail how I went from absolutely fu&king not to TKG. I wanted to…

Nonmonogamy

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From Lifestyle Libertine to Respected Relationship Coach, this is my story.
From Lifestyle Libertine to Respected Relationship Coach, this is my story.
Nonmonogamy

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Jun 6

Did You Hear The One About The Marriage Wrecker?

‘Single Women In The Lifestyle Are Marriage Wreckers’ ‘Single Women In The Lifestyle Are Marriage Wreckers’ So this particular slice of slur pie was served to me as a comment left on one of my Thiskindagirl TikTok videos. And I’ll be honest. Initially, I had the thought, ‘You don’t need…

Sex

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Did You Hear The One About The Marriage Wrecker?
Did You Hear The One About The Marriage Wrecker?
Sex

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Apr 14

I Believe Ethical Non-Monogamy Is More Productive Than Monogamy, and This Is Why.

I Believe Ethical Non-Monogamy Is More Productive Than Monogamy. Before I get started, the title of this article might have some of you scratching your heads. What is Rosie going on about now? Ethical non-monogamy, more productive, what? But bear with me; it does make sense, I promise, and even…

Sex

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I Believe Ethical Non-Monogamy Is More Productive Than Monogamy, and This Is Why.
I Believe Ethical Non-Monogamy Is More Productive Than Monogamy, and This Is Why.
Sex

8 min read


Mar 30

Have you ever been to a BBC party; Is it wrong to fetishise someone’s race?

I have a friend, and I will refer to her as A for this particular piece of content, which promises to be taboo, thought-provoking and non-pc. Just what we like here at thiskindagirl. And here’s the thing, A likes black men. In fact, she prefers black men over other races…

Sex

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Have you ever been to a BBC party; Is it wrong to fetishise someone’s race?
Have you ever been to a BBC party; Is it wrong to fetishise someone’s race?
Sex

5 min read


Mar 13

The Importance (and irony) Of Pubes

Rosie, When swinging, which is best for pubes waxed, natural or trimmed? This is a question I received recently and before I offer my thoughts on this question, I wanted to talk about the science behind WHY we have pubic hair and what its function is… because, yes, it has…

Swinging

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The Importance (and irony) Of Pubes
The Importance (and irony) Of Pubes
Swinging

5 min read

Rosie Kay aka ThisKindaGirl

Rosie Kay aka ThisKindaGirl

686 Followers

My mission is to banish the stigma about non-monogamy and who the swingers are. I help couples talk openly about their needs. https://thiskindagirl.co.uk/links/

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