4 days agoIf men are hardwired to want more than one partner, can the same be said for women?Hi Rosie, if men are hardwired to want more than one partner, can the same be said for women? I received this question a few weeks ago via my site, and until now, it’s been buzzing around on my to-do list. I keep trying unsuccessfully to answer it as a…Sex8 min readSex8 min read
Sep 8Is There Such Thing As A Perfect Foursome? Or Is It A Swinger Lifestyle Myth?Is There Such Thing As A Perfect Foursome? One problem many couples have shared with me, written to me about at thiskindagirl and also wanted to hear my thoughts on when I’ve met them in clubs is ‘Is there such thing as a perfect foursome?’ or are they simply asking…Nonmonogamy8 min readNonmonogamy8 min read
Aug 16Three signs you are practising basic forms of Ethical Non-Monogamy in your relationshipWhat are the basic forms of Ethical Non-Monogamy? No, it’s not secretly deleting ‘just a text’ off your phone, nor is it watching pornhub whilst your partner is asleep; basic ethical non-monogamy, or the practice of it, is a thing. And it might be something you do in your relationship without even realising it! But first, let’s talk…Sex And Relationships9 min readSex And Relationships9 min read
Aug 1Is Male Chastity Allowed In Swinger Clubs?Is Male Chastity Allowed In Swinger Clubs? Recently, I received a question from a TKG Club member who was curious about male chastity within the swinger lifestyle, and they went on to share with members a scenario they would like to experience with their wife. I read both the question…Swingers7 min readSwingers7 min read
Jul 24Do sex workers and the swinger lifestyle mix? Here are five reasons why I say they do.A few weeks ago, I received a question that sounded a little like this ‘Hi Rosie, I want to swing with my wife. Shall I hire us an escort?’ Now, for me, not only did this question get me thinking about why a couple might want to ‘swing’ with a…Sex Work7 min readSex Work7 min read
Jul 10From Lifestyle Libertine to Respected Relationship Coach, this is my story.I was recently asked, ‘How did you leap from the lifestyle into career coaching/ mentoring within the industry?’ When I started thiskindagirl, I sat down and told my story. I put pen to paper and started to detail how I went from absolutely fu&king not to TKG. I wanted to…Nonmonogamy4 min readNonmonogamy4 min read
Jun 6Did You Hear The One About The Marriage Wrecker?‘Single Women In The Lifestyle Are Marriage Wreckers’ ‘Single Women In The Lifestyle Are Marriage Wreckers’ So this particular slice of slur pie was served to me as a comment left on one of my Thiskindagirl TikTok videos. And I’ll be honest. Initially, I had the thought, ‘You don’t need…Sex5 min readSex5 min read
Apr 14I Believe Ethical Non-Monogamy Is More Productive Than Monogamy, and This Is Why.I Believe Ethical Non-Monogamy Is More Productive Than Monogamy. Before I get started, the title of this article might have some of you scratching your heads. What is Rosie going on about now? Ethical non-monogamy, more productive, what? But bear with me; it does make sense, I promise, and even…Sex8 min readSex8 min read
Mar 30Have you ever been to a BBC party; Is it wrong to fetishise someone’s race?I have a friend, and I will refer to her as A for this particular piece of content, which promises to be taboo, thought-provoking and non-pc. Just what we like here at thiskindagirl. And here’s the thing, A likes black men. In fact, she prefers black men over other races…Sex5 min readSex5 min read
Mar 13The Importance (and irony) Of PubesRosie, When swinging, which is best for pubes waxed, natural or trimmed? This is a question I received recently and before I offer my thoughts on this question, I wanted to talk about the science behind WHY we have pubic hair and what its function is… because, yes, it has…Swinging5 min readSwinging5 min read