Who enjoys strap on sex?

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Using a strap on isn’t simply for pegging; neither is it something only lesbians enjoy. In this article, I, thiskindagirl.com, aim to enlighten, educate and enthral you into what strap on sex is all about!

But first, what are my credentials? What qualifies me to talk so candidly about the wonder of the rubber willy? Using a strap on during sex is something that I have been enjoying for several years now. I’ve enjoyed them with men, women, in swinger situations, during BDSM sessions and when I have played with Dominatrixes. So, I suppose I am a bit savvy when…


Recreating The Swinger Experience- My Alternative Sex Toy Guide. I couldn’t let valentines day slide past me without a dedicated article. Being that I am thiskindagirl; lover of all things swinger related, procurer of an extensive toy collection and dedicated lifestyler, I thought how better to get into the mood than by a sex toys for swinger couples article, with an aim to recreating the swinger magic in the bedroom?

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Even though I don’t get down with valentines day rituals (I believe I should be loved and adored every day) what I do believe in, and practice as often as…


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I’m not going to sugarcoat the truth, and I’m not going to tell you what you want to hear.

Why?

Well, I write a lot of articles on thiskindagirl and share with my fans loads of information on how to have the swinging conversation and how to get started the lifestyle. It’s probably the question that I am asked most frequently, and for that I thank you, after all, it is kinda what I’m all about.

But sometimes I just want to share. My dating life hasn't always been peachy perfect, I’m not a sexual goddess, irresistible to all men…


Why I Chose To Live In London

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There is a reason that thiskindagirl HQ is based in London. An excellent reason. It is no coincidence that I, swinging expert, kinky content creator and full-time lifestyle guru, decided to set up home in the heart of the capital.

Here in the UK, we have a reputation for having the largest number of swingers in our population than other European countries. (yes, I am ignoring Brexit) And according to fab swingers, the swinger dating site, over 90% of people who visit their website are from the UK.

Here, you will be discovering why swingers love London and what a…


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I was a good ‘kitty’

By thiskindagirl.com. A while ago, I had the pleasure of serving a professional Dominatrix. The experience was so fulfilling that I find myself unable to resist sharing it with you.

The shared fantasies, the search, the initial chat, the build-up and then meeting her; the whole experience has left me begging for more!

Why I Chose To Play With A Professional Dominatrix

You may be aware that I am quite Dominant myself, and within my relationship; I am the boss. I don’t need any encouragement to slip on my thigh-high boots, and likewise, my boyfriend, S, needs no instruction to zip said boots up.

So why then did we…


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I didn’t want to write another article on the rules of swinging, or what women should wear for swinging as I feel firstly, I already have articles on these topics on thiskindagirl.com and secondly, knowing how to handle your emotions when swinging is just as important as knowing what to wear and what to take to a club.

In this article, you will discover how to deal with jealous emotions and why being a great communicator is key when swinging as well as my top tips for expressing your sexuality. …


Do Women Enjoy Swinging?

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Do Women Enjoy Swinging? There is a common misconception surrounding women and the swinger lifestyle that I feel needs addressing. And, being the straight-talking Northern thiskindagirl that I am, I couldn’t have a sex and swinging blog without covering this particular topic! In fact, I feel so passionately about this subject, that I plan to write a good few hundred words on it! Pedantic? Yes! Preachy? Perhaps! Passionate about my beliefs? 100% So, let us discuss, Do Women Enjoy Swinging?

Are Women Being Coerced Into Swinging?

There are people, who are under the assumption that swinging or being involved in the ‘Lifestyle’ is degrading to women…


How To Be A SUCCESSFUL Male Swinger from thiskindagirl

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Dear Thiskindagirl,

How do I deal with the stigma attached to male swingers? I think many men feel they portray the image of greedy sex seekers. How do I deal with this stigma?

Firstly, we have to look at what stereotype is being conjured up. After all, why is it that some single men portray the image of greedy sex seekers? Sadly, from my own experiences of parties, I can say that there have been a lot of men who I have encountered who, unfortunately, have fitted this description. The men…


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Ok, I’ll be honest with you, a few weeks ago, before researching this topic, I was sceptical. After all, when it comes to swinging, I have a ‘hands-on’ approach. However, we are currently still amid the coronavirus pandemic and swinging clubs, and swinger dates are strictly off-limits for the time being! So, with that being the case, we have to explore other avenues to get our kinky fixes…I give to you…The Swinger Chatroom by thiskindagirl.

I know that chatrooms went out of fashion along with Myspace and Nokia3310’s in the early 2000s; however, they are making a comeback and more…


Can Single Men enjoy swinging?

This is the advice you have been waiting for, so listen up!

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Welcome sexy single males to the world of swinger clubs from Thiskindagirl. Before you strip off and dive in, it pays to do some research first! Ready to discover how single men can visit swinger clubs? Great! First, it’s important to remember that a lot of single men are keen to visit swinger clubs, but within the lifestyle, there is quite a low demand for them. However, don’t despair, with my help, I will give you my top tips on how to be a successful single male swinger!

Why Do Single Men Want To Swing?

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